Development Officers are SUCH Prima Donnas

Why is it important to have a culture of philanthropy in your organization?  Imagine this:

Every year your nonprofit hosts a big program event.  As the new Director of Development, you are tasked with trying to establish a major gifts program.  You suggest adding a cultivation event following the program.  Your colleagues are skeptical – “we’ve tried that, no one ever comes.”  Undeterred, you press on.

You personally make over 300 phone calls inviting donors and potential donors to attend.  The big day comes.  You stay late the night before, lugging chairs around and helping with the set up.  You spend the morning helping with logistics for the daytime event.  In the afternoon, you shower and change and prepare for your cocktail party.

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It’s hot and you’re all dressed up.  You notice a few looks from the program staff who see you sitting down while they’re running around. 

The moment of truth – your cocktail party – and 70 people show up.  People who could really make a difference to the organization.  The party is a huge success, and your Executive Director is pleased.

The next morning you arrive at the office and feel a cold vibe.  There’s whispering in the lunch room.  No one will meet your eye.  You’re still relatively new on staff, but there are a couple people with whom you feel comfortable speaking openly.  The feedback you get is that you are viewed as a prima donna.  Like you think you’re better than everyone else.

You’re exhausted.  You’ve been working overtime to pull off this big cultivation event, and the event was a tremendous success.  But all you want to do is lay your head down on your desk and cry.

It doesn’t matter how hard you work or how much money you raise.  If your boss and board and colleagues don’t understand what the process of fundraising is all about, your efforts will never be valued and appreciated.

Fundraising is a joyful process of matching donors with impact.  It is not shameful or embarrassing.  It is honorable and mission-critical, and is the responsibility of every person who is associated with your organization.  Just as your organization is client-centered, it must also be donor-centered to thrive.

Developing a culture of philanthropy takes time and effort.  It requires cheerleading and communicating and sharing credit for successes.  It requires gratitude and a commitment to excellent customer (donor) service.  It is hard work, but it is essential, both for your professional sanity and your organization’s ability to attract and retain donors.

For specific ideas about how you can begin to build a culture of philanthropy within your organization, check out my blog post: No One Understands What You Do All Day.

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