Change Your Mindset and You Will Change Your Reality

When you start a new job, the first few months you are observing, taking everything in, learning the ropes.  But unless this is your first job, you are also comparing.  Drawing conclusions.  Every organization has a different culture, different systems and rules, different politics and power structures.

There are likely things that your new employer is asking you to do that aren’t efficient.  That don’t feel like the highest priority.  But as a new employee, you are still building relationships.  You are still trying to prove yourself and make a good impression.  You are still finding your allies.

Are you the type of person who voices her opinion right away?  Who points out the deficiencies and the opportunities without worrying about ruffling a few feathers?  Who sees herself as an agent of change?  Or do you wait until you have a better sense of the culture, of how things are done, of who might agree with you? 

What if you wait too long?  After a few months, you will start to get used to how things are.  Your workload will increase because you are no longer in training mode.  You won’t have as much freedom to observe, to think, to ponder.   And now you’ve missed your window to make change.  You were hired because of your knowledge and prior work experience.  And now you’re just a soldier, marching in step.

Maybe you’re lucky, and your organization encourages creativity and innovation.  One of my first bosses, in my twenties, said on day one, “I won’t get mad if you do something wrong.  What makes me mad is if you see a better way to do your job and don’t say anything.”  That value statement went a long way toward empowering the staff to take risks and dramatically grow its revenue.

It is becoming increasingly clear to me that the success or failure of many fundraising professionals has little to do with tactical fundraising skills – writing a good appeal, planning a good event – and everything to do with culture and systems and attitudes.

Maybe what fundraisers need to be more successful is the ability to “manage up.”  To take those impressions of what has worked well at other organizations and sell that vision to your executive director and board members more effectively.

Last year I saw a colleague take a director of development job at a large social service agency, only to be let go a month later because it wasn’t a good fit.  From what I know of this colleague, he is highly qualified and should have been successful.

A few months later I saw another colleague step into that same job.  A year in, she is thriving.  She has increased contributed revenue and more importantly, she has gotten the executive director and board to invest significant resources into fundraising.  She showed them some short-term results, and shared her longer-term vision, and as a result the organization is actually pulling capital out of their endowment to make this growth possible.


It took this fundraiser being tenacious and ambitious and persistent to make the progress she’s made.  But it is possible that with the right mindset, and absolute clarity about the end result you seek, we can break the cycle of short tenures in development staff.   In this relationship-driven business, the longer you stick around, the better your chances are of transforming your fundraising results.

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